When You Make a Mistake at Work: A Heartfelt Guide for Growth and Grace + Our Open Jobs + Stuff We Loved This Week
Eclat Weekly Newsletter, 2025 No5
Let’s talk about something we all face but rarely enjoy discussing — making mistakes at work. In hospitality, where the details matter and every interaction counts, mistakes can feel especially heavy. A forgotten guest request, a miscommunication with a colleague, or a mix-up in operations can leave you feeling embarrassed or frustrated. But here’s the thing: mistakes don’t define you. How you handle them does.
1. Own It — Honestly and Calmly
The first step is to acknowledge your mistake without defensiveness. No excuses, no blame-shifting. People respect those who can step up and say, “That was my responsibility, and I got it wrong. I’m sorry for the inconvenience it caused.”
Taking responsibility doesn’t mean dwelling on guilt; it means showing that you care enough to be accountable. It’s a powerful way to build credibility and trust.
2. Apologize with Heart
A sincere apology goes a long way, whether it’s to a guest, a colleague, or your manager. But don’t stop at a simple “I’m sorry.” Let them know you understand the impact:
To a colleague: “I made a mistake during the morning shift, and I realize it put more pressure on you. I’m really sorry and will stay late to help make up for it.”
To your boss: “I take full responsibility for the error. Here’s what I learned and what I’m doing to ensure it doesn’t happen again.”
To a guest: “I sincerely apologize for the delay in your room service. I’ll personally ensure the rest of your stay is seamless.”
What matters most is authenticity. People can tell when you genuinely care.
3. Fix What You Can and Follow Through
Words are important, but actions seal the deal. Offer solutions to correct the mistake and follow through on your promises.
If it’s a guest issue, find creative ways to recover the situation. If it’s an operational slip-up, stay late if needed or create a better process. Show your team that you’re not just apologizing — you’re stepping up to make things right.
4. Learn and Reflect
Every mistake has a lesson waiting for you. Ask yourself:
• What led to the error?
• How can I prevent it from happening again?
• Is there a skill I need to develop or a habit I need to change?
Mistakes often push us toward growth if we’re open to learning. Maybe you’ll develop a sharper eye for details, learn to double-check reports, or improve your communication skills.
5. Be Kind to Yourself
This part is crucial. Hospitality is a demanding, fast-paced world, and mistakes happen to even the best professionals. Don’t beat yourself up.
Think about how you would comfort a colleague in the same situation. Offer yourself that same kindness. Recognize that this mistake doesn’t make you less capable or valuable. In fact, the way you recover from it will likely earn you even more respect.
Why Mistakes Can Be Gifts
Believe it or not, mistakes can be gifts in disguise.
They can strengthen your relationships with colleagues who appreciate your honesty and accountability. They can lead to creative solutions or improved processes. And perhaps most importantly, they remind you that you’re human — and being human is what makes you empathetic, relatable, and authentic in this business.
You are not your mistakes; you are how you respond to them. In hospitality, where recovery is often the most memorable part of service, there’s always room to turn things around.
So when you stumble, take a deep breath. Own it. Apologize sincerely. Fix it. Learn from it. And then move forward with confidence.
You’ll come out stronger, wiser, and ready to shine even brighter.
Keep growing, keep learning, and keep being amazing. You’ve got this.
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